Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
09.06.2025 12:23

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.
No country for ugly people…
Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
What is the cost of implementing synchronized traffic lights in a mid-sized city?
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.
If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.
That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
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